1..Be Confident

“I want an insecure, self-conscious, low self-esteem man,” said no woman ever. That’s because women want a confident man, which shows strength and the ability to provide and protect.
While this may seem to contradict the dichotomy of the sugar mama/sugar baby relationship, it still holds water. Just because a sugar mama is the “provider,” doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want to feel safe and protected.

2. Know Your Place
Sure, you have a sugar mama providing for you. Sure, you’re getting some high-end toys and living the life of luxury. But you have to know your place in the relationship and toe the line. If you show the slightest bit of disinterest or dissatisfaction, or if you flirt with other women, you’re flirting with disaster and you can basically see your way out the door. Your sugar mama is investing in you and she expects you to to be invested in her. While she wants you to be happy and to have fun, she also wants you to be thinking about her and ways to surprise her, ways to make her happy, and ways to satisfy her needs. Your place is at her side and doing everything you can to make her feel secure and fulfilled.

3. Take Care of Yourself
It’s not every woman who desires a fit and trim man, but being so doesn’t hurt you either… for the most part. But perhaps when a woman does find 0% body fat appealing, it has more to do with the man’s pride and determination to cultivate a healthy lifestyle than with his actual appearance.In the case of a sugar mama, maybe she sees a fit sugar baby as someone who can provide the type of youthful energy she craves. As stated elsewhere here, you are a sugar mama’s show piece, so while you don’t have to be chiseled like an underwear model, you shouldn’t be a slob either.

4. Cultivate Your Look
Unless you’re seeking a specific type of sugar mama, like a heavy metal or horror PR firm executive, then you’ll want a fairly clean, modern, and stylish look. For the most part, this means no Birkenstock, cargo shorts, tank tops, or anything that you’d wear to the gym. Blazer and t-shirt? Check. Well-kept beard and/or scruff? Check. Slim fit pants? Check. Styled hair? Check. Good smelling and functional grooming products? Check. Manicured nails? Check. Naturally, you should dress appropriate for the social situation, but in general you should be well booted and suited.

5. Be Well-Informed on Current Events

 It’s true; not everyone wants to talk about politics or Isis or the Boston bomber, but knowing the headlines can’t hurt. At the very least, these subjects can serve as conversation openers to help you gauge where your sugar mama is at, and what her personal interests are. Don’t forget the local and celebrity news. As well, when she takes you out to social events, you won’t look like an embarrassing dimwit and she’ll be proud to have you as her date.